What Is Lust

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Have you ever asked yourself what is lust? If you have then you are not alone, and most people have, but have also admitted that they don’t understand it completely. Simply put, lust is something that causes our bodies to react in a manner that we feel is sexual or erotic. The best definition of lust comes from the dictionary: the emotion that drives sexual desire. When we are in the state of falling in love or lust we are driven by our emotions, not by logic.

Unfortunately, many Christians have a difficult time dealing with the question of lust and what is grace. Because lust is closely associated with sexual immorality, those who are confronted with this question often feel guilty or even shameful for feeling sexual desire at all. If you are one of these Christians who struggles with what is lust, I have a question for you: Have you ever asked yourself what is the purpose of sex for your God, and/or for your spouse or significant other? Most Christians struggle with this because the truth is that most sexless Christians feel guilty about their lack of sex, even if they aren’t having sex (which is not the same as not having sex). While most people will readily admit that sex is not the reason for marriage or relationship, Christians often feel differently.

This leads to a second important issue: what is lust really? It is an overpowering emotion, one that causes one to behave in a way that is inappropriate in most circumstances. In most cases, this behavior usually leads to a sinful relationship. While it may be true that the result of lust is immoral behavior, this does not make it sin itself! Christians should know that there is a scripture in the New Testament that clearly explains what is lost and what it does to the person who has it.

The Bible refers to sexual immorality as man’s natural desire toward another human being. However, God uses the word “covetous” to interpret it. “Covetous” means “minded” or “roused.” In fact, covetous men or women think of other people as their sexual partners. This is the sin of “habitual masturbation,” which is an act that results in ejaculating without the permission of the other person.

Christians must learn to fight lust in all of its forms. This includes any desire to engage in sexual immorality. Christians should never allow themselves to fall into a state of mild or mildewed desires. These will only keep growing and multiplying in time until it reaches a point where it is out of control and leading Christians to commit acts of shameful and unnatural behavior. Christians who allow themselves to fall into this state will become more closed-minded, until they no longer have any desire to grow in their walk with God.

When Christians are able to recognize when they are guilty of what is lust, they will be able to turn it around and work against it. They can consciously work against their own sinful desires. Instead of allowing lust to control them, they should work hard to find ways to redirect their desires so they are in line with God’s purposes.

Christians can learn to fight lust by refuting every premise that describes how lust works. Christians need to learn what is lust doesn’t mean. Christians need to stop seeing lust as an evil force that will lead Christians into depraved acts of immorality. Instead, Christians need to work hard to see lust as a normal desire and work towards turning it into a good thing.

Christians can fight the sin of what is lost by not participating in unhealthy sex outside of marriage. Christians need to reframe their idea of lust as something that is inappropriate in the case of having sex outside of marriage. Christians need to realize that they will live with this sin forever if they allow themselves to be tempted to act immorally. Christians should be able to say “no” at least once a week if they feel like it and they should have sex for only one purpose – procreation. Christians should avoid fantasizing about having sex with someone who is already married. If Christians can do these things, they can make a distinction between what is lust and what is the desire of the flesh.